The Making Of A Mother

It”s Thursday morning..., tnx GoD I'm alive hehehe...(good and bad)...Good because we don't have task this day hehehe.. we have nothing to do except for chatting and browsing in the net about something else that could catch our interest..Bad because It is so boring...a felt asleep..One of my friend said that its better to read articles and stories then I start browsing interested story suddenly I found a list of short stories..I read it all and one of the story that catches my attention and honestly I love it the story titled “Making of a Mother”...a conversation between the Lord and the Angel on how the Lord make the woman of substance..

By the time the Lord made mothers, He was into the sixth day working overtime. An Angel appeared and said "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"

And the Lord answered and said, "Have you read the spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not elastic; have 200 movable parts, all replaceable; run on black coffee and leftovers; have a lap that can hold three children at one time and that disappears when she stands up; have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart; and have six pairs of hands."

The Angel was astounded at the requirements for this one. "Six pairs of hands! No way!" said the Angel.

The Lord replied, "Oh, it's not the hands that are the problem. It's the three pairs of eyes that mothers must have!"

"And that's on the standard model?" the Angel asked.

The Lord nodded in agreement, "Yep, one pair of eyes are to see through the closed door as she asks her children what they are doing even though she already knows. Another pair in the back of her head are to see what she needs to know even though no one thinks she can. And the third pair are here in the front of her head. They are for looking at an errant child and saying that she understands and loves him or her without even saying a single word."

The Angel tried to stop the Lord "This is too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."

"But I can't!" The Lord protested, "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can feed a family of six on a pound of hamburger and can get a nine year old to stand in the shower."

The Angel moved closer and touched the woman, "But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?" asked the Angel.

The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason, and negotiate."

The Angel then noticed something and reached out and touched the woman's cheek. "Oops, it looks like You have a leak with this model. I told You that You were trying to put too much into this one."

"That's not a leak." the Lord objected. "That's a tear!"

"What's the tear for?" the Angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her disappointment, her pain, her loneliness, her grief, and her pride."

The Angel was impressed. "You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything for this one. You even created the tear!"

The Lord looked at the Angel and smiled and said, "I'm afraid you are wrong again. I created the woman, but she created the tear!"

Favorite Song of Dennis

Someday
Nina

Someday you'll gonna realize
One day you'll see through my eyes
But then i won't even be there
I'll be happy somewhere
Even if i can't

I know
You dont really see my worth
You think your the last guy on earth
Well i've got news for you
I know i'm not that strong
But it won't take long
Won't take long

Chorus

Coz someday, someone's gonna love me
The way, i want you to need me
Someday, someone's gonna take your place
One day i'll forget about you
You'll see, i won't even miss you
Someday, someday

But now
I know you can't tell
I'm down,and i'm not down anyway
But one day these tears
They will all run dry
I won't have to cry
Sweet goodbye

Chorus

Coz someday, someone's gonna love me
The way, i want you to need me
Someday, someone's gonna take your place
One day i'll forget about you
You'll see, i won't even miss you
Someday, someday

I dedicate this SONG and a short story to my DEAR FRIEND Dennis Casa

I hope Someday, someone's gonna take her place to your broken heart.

The Rose Within

A certain man planted a rose and watered it faithfully and before it blossomed, he examined it.
He saw the bud that would soon blossom, but noticed thorns upon the stem and he thought, "How can any beautiful flower come from a plant burdened with so many sharp thorns? Saddened by this thought, he neglected to water the rose, and just before it was ready to bloom... it died.
So it is with many people. Within every soul there is a rose. The God-like qualities planted in us at birth, grow amid the thorns of our faults. Many of us look at ourselves and see only the thorns, the defects.
We despair, thinking that nothing good can possibly come from us. We neglect to water the good within us, and eventually it dies. We never realize our potential.
Some people do not see the rose within themselves; someone else must show it to them. One of the greatest gifts a person can possess is to be able to reach past the thorns of another, and find the rose within them.

This is one of the characteristic of love... to look at a person, know their true faults and accepting that person into your life... all the while recognizing the nobility in their soul. Help others to realize they can overcome their faults. If we show them the "rose" within themselves, they will conquer their thorns. Only then will they blossom many times over.

4 WIVES

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we're on our deathbed to lament

Two Frogs

A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them
fell into a deep pit. When the other frogs saw how deep the pit
was, they told the two frogs that they were as good as dead. The
two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit
with all their might. The other frogs kept telling them to stop,
that they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took
heed to what the other frogs were saying and gave up. He fell down
and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again,
the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and just die. He
jumped even harder and finally made it out. When he got out, the
other frogs said, "Did you not hear us?" The frog explained to
them that he was deaf. He thought they were encouraging him the
entire time.

This story teaches two lessons:

1. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging
word to someone who is down can lift them up and help them make it
through the day.

2. A destructive word to someone who is down can be what it takes
to kill them.

Be careful of what you say. Speak life to those who cross your
path. The power of words... it is sometimes hard to understand
that an encouraging word can go such a long way. Anyone can speak
words that tend to rob another of the spirit to continue in
difficult times. Special is the individual who will take the time
to encourage another.

How to Make Pilsen Beer??

Beer is as old as human civilization and we have not decided yet if it's good (as least for the heart and skin) or bad. 5,000 years ago, Sumerians, Babylonians and Egyptians already had over 19 varieties of beer. From Middle East, Europeans adopted this booze and at the beginning of the first millennium it had already became a favorite of Celts, Germans (including Vikings) and other tribes, entering their mythology.

During the Middle Age, beer brewery was the task of monasteries and monks improved the process by adding hop. But the history of the Pilsen beer started in 1295 when Wenceslaus II of Bohemia gave 260 citizens of the city of Pilsen the right to make beer. The household processing at first in small quantities ended with the formation of guilds and breweries. In time, the economy and culture of Bohemia declined and so did the beer processing: people were brewing beer following their own recipes without considering traditional techniques, which often resulted in a disgusting broth not worthy to be called beer.

By those times, there were two types of basic European beer: the one fermented on the surface of the liquid, made especially in Bohemia, and the one made at the bottom of the barrel, of better quality and very popular in Bavaria. The difference between the Bohemian beer and the Bavarian lager was abysmal.

In 1839, 200 brewers of Pilsen founded the Citizen Brewery, aiming to produce only lager beer similar to the Bavarian one. They invited the famous Bavarian brewer Josef Groll and even if he produced something different of what the Bohemians expected, this was more than Groll himself had anticipated. The result was the Pilsen beer, unique through its scent, color, and flavor, due to the excellent quality of the local raw material. The fame of the Pilsen beer made it one of the most imitated types of beer.

At the beginning of the 19th century beer brewery became a mechanized process. When Danish researcher Emil Christian Hansen separated a pure yeast strain for beer, he effectively revolutionized brewery.

Beer brewery requires 4 ingredients (water, barley, yeast and hop) and four steps. Germinated barley (malt, made in 5-6 days at 14 degrees C) is dried in special ovens, being left with 2-5% humidity, which stops germination. The sprouts are eliminated and the ground malt is mixed with water till a pap emerges, and this is heated 'till it reaches the temperature when enzymes are activated and break down starch to glucose (in over 4 hours). The resulting liquid is filtered and boiled for two hours to deactivate the enzymes, hop is added for the bitter flavor and the liquid is cooled. Through fermentation the glucose is turned into alcohol and carbon dioxide by yeast, in a week. Temperature and time makes the beer type, ale or lager.

Family Conflict Resolution

What are some principles of family conflict resolution?

A family can be compared to a four-wheeled cart where each of the wheels is free-wheeling. As long as all four wheels face front, the cart rolls along nice and smoothly. But if one of the wheels turns itself crossways to the other three, we have a problem. We have a family in conflict. That family is in need of some basic family conflict resolution skills.

The first thing to be done is to identify the problem. That’s very important. You can’t solve a problem unless you really know what it is. It involves talking to one another and listening to one another. Why does he come home from work angry all the time? What is she facing at work? What does he need at home? Why is she nagging all the time? Why is she unhappy? Take a piece of paper and write down all the reasons. It could be money problems. It could be fatigue. It could be the neighbors, in-laws, aging parents, illness, or the kids. What do these problems make you feel like? Write down un-met needs and wants. The process of writing helps diffuse anger and frustration. It helps a person to think rationally.

After both partners have identified the problem, the second step is to practice the art of mirror listening. It is sometimes called reflective listening. This is a valuable skill to acquire. When your spouse shares his thoughts with you, either verbally or reading from a list, before you counter back with what’s on your mind say something like this. “So when _______ happens, it makes you feel like ______. (Add your own sentence to fill in the blanks.) Am I understanding you correctly?” You are reflecting back to make sure you have understood. Your spouse can then agree or add more explanations. Without understanding the other person’s point of view, no negotiation is possible.

After both partners have identified what is bothering them, it is time to move on to next step of family conflict resolution. It is time to make a plan. How are we jointly going to master this problem? What are our goals for a good outcome? If we can’t reach our goals immediately what are the in-between steps? Both partners are now focused on solving a problem, not battling each other. There will inevitably be give and take.

If it is a money problem, budgeting and spending habits need to be addressed. There are organizations and institutions out there to offer help if needed.

If the problem is with the kids, particularly with younger kids, one of the best things to do is to have an established routine and stick with it. That includes bedtimes, mealtimes, playtimes. Children really want parameters of expected behavior. They want to know what is expected of them. It helps them to grow and mature. For very young children it may sometimes be necessary to take their hand and with their hand “help” them to pick up their toys.

After the problem has been identified, and a plan to solve it has been created, the next logical step in family conflict resolution is to work the plan. Just talking solves nothing. It may involve making a contract with one another, on paper or with a handshake. I will faithfully do this, while the partner will faithfully do that. One family may decide that the wife will process all the bills. In another family it will be the husband’s job.

Older children respond well to the contract approach. In one family I know, allowances were faithfully given when the child meet the requirements of his chore contract.

Your family cart, with all the members in it, is traveling in unison once again.

Marriage Conflict

Marriage Conflict – The Source
Marriage conflict is a normal part of married life. When two people come together in marriage, conflict is bound to happen. Each person has had different life experience, and undoubtedly, has different expectations of marriage and from his/her spouse. Therefore, each one is going to react differently to life’s challenges.

Marriage Conflict – The Response
Whenever two or more people come together, the chance of marriage conflict is bound to increase. Marital conflicts are not bad in themselves. It is our response to the conflicts that can be either helpful or harmful. Marital conflict can be the challenge to help us grow into more mature persons and a more mature relationship or it can destroy our marriages. Perhaps God is using the particular quirks of our spouse as sandpaper to polish the rough edges off our own characters.

You might be surprised to learn the Bible discusses this. In the book of James it says to be happy when the way is rough because then our patience has a chance to grow. When our patience grows, it shows that we are mature (James 1:1-4). It shows that love really dwells within us. The nature of true love is very patient and kind, never jealous or envious, never haughty or selfish or rude. Love does not demand its own way. It is not touchy. It does not hold grudges and hardly even notices when others do it wrong (1 Corinthians 13).

We see what is really within us when our spouse “pushes our buttons.” Will we erupt in anger? Will we be rude? Will we demand he/she do it our way? Will we allow marital conflicts to rule our lives? Will we implement techniques to create better communication? Even though our spouse may be wrong in what he/she says or does, our response shows who we really are on the inside. We have a choice. We can react in a constructive way or we can react in a negative way, parading our anger, our sense of injustice, and our wounded pride.

Marriage Conflict – Examples
We don’t have to look far to see examples of marriage conflict. Conflict can range from a minor disagreement over what to have for dinner tonight to the extreme of abuse.

It’s often easy to get into a pity party and to feel wronged or self-righteous when a marital conflict occurs. There have been times in my own marriage where I truly felt that I had given all that I could give and that it was his turn to change. I found through counseling and prayer that my heart and my motives were often far from right or noble and that I was very wrong in my attitudes and reactions to my husband. I’ve learned that my husband has much to say and it is often very correct.

There is an example in the Bible of a woman who had every reason to be angry with her husband, to be rude, to berate him, but she did not. She chose to be a peacemaker instead. Her name was Abigail and her husband’s name was Nabal. The story is found in 1 Samuel 25. Nabal did a foolish thing. He insulted David’s men and railed at them when David was in need of help. David was very angry and intended to kill Nabal and all his men. Abigail, rather than being angry at her husband and berate him for his stupidity, for having put all of them in mortal danger, acted in a constructive way and saved their lives!

A modern example of an Abigail attitude is that of a young couple where the husband left the church they were raised in and were married in, to go into the occult. Even though it tore at the heart of the young wife she did not let it escalate into out of control marital conflicts. She was patient with him and kind. Rather than criticize, ridicule and nag him about his choice, which would surely have driven them apart, she chose to continue to respond to him in love. Because of her attitude toward him, in time he saw the wrongness of his choice and returned to the church.

Handling Insecurity

What is insecurity?

Insecurity is:

• Feeling of not being ``good enough'' to meet the challenge of a situation you face in life.

• Sense of helplessness in the face of problems, conflict, or concerns.

• Belief that one is inadequate or incompetent to handle life's challenges.

• Fear of being discovered as inadequate, ill fitted, or unsuited to meet responsibilities at home, school, or on the job.

• Sense of not fitting in, being ``out of synch'' with those in your peer group.

• Perception that life is unpredictable with most of the expectations you have to meet not clearly understood.

• Sense of always climbing up a mountain, never being able to reach the top.

• Sense of lacking support or reinforcement where you live, work, or play.

• Results from a sense of being unaccepted, disapproved, or rejected.

• Inner turmoil coming from a lack of direction or bewilderment as to where you are going, what your goals are, and what responses are appropriate for events in life.

Why are people insecure?

Insecure people may have:

• Been raised in a chaotic, unpredictable, or volatile environment in which they were kept off balance, on guard, or on edge.

• Experienced a major tragedy or loss in their lives and are having a difficult time in accepting this loss and adjusting to the ``change.''

• Experienced a major ``failure'' in life (e.g., divorce, losing a job, bankruptcy, failure in school, losing a friend, lack of acceptance into social or civic groups, etc.) that led them to question their personal competency.

• A poorly developed self-concept with low self-esteem, lacking belief in their personal goodness, skills, or abilities.

• Never felt accepted by the ``others'' in their life, so much so that they became chronically shy, retiring, and withdrawn in their interactions.

• Had an unrealistic list of rules and expectations prescribed by significant others in their life, rules they are striving to meet even in their current life.

• A poor body image, making them believe that others see them in a negative light. This makes them self-conscious, tense, and anxious in dealing with others.

• Never received enough positive reinforcement or feedback from others about their talents and abilities, leaving them unclear as to their skills.

• Been given very little direction, guidance, or discipline in their earlier lives leaving them unable to cope with the current pressures of life.

• Always felt overshadowed or overlooked due to the people in their lives who seemed to be more successful, smarter, prettier, more handsome, more athletic, higher achievers, getting much attention. This can foster doubt in an insecure person's ability to gain recognition for their successes, and can make them doubt their ability to achieve success.

What are some negative effects of insecurity?

People who are insecure can:

• Have difficulties in establishing healthy, long-lasting relationships.

• Be perceived incorrectly by others as being snobbish or uppity; therefore, they are avoided due to the others' misperceptions.

• Become victims of fears that impair their freedom of action or choice.

• Be candidates for paranoia feeling "others'' are out to get them.

• Scare others away from them by their defensive attitude.

• Be over-controlled emotionally, having problems letting others in on their emotions. This can lead others to guess what is going on until the passivity of the insecure person leads to an over-reaction by the others, resulting in conflict or rejection.

• Have problems on the job or in school when they have the knowledge, skills and abilities to do a task efficiently but are told to do it in a different, less effective manner. They get so uptight about the job and are fearful of standing up for what they believe that they get angry, hostile, and resentful until they either quit or succeed in submerging their emotions.

• Get passed over for promotions, advances, or honors because they are so quiet about what it is they do. This leads the insecure persons to feel more unaccepted, unappreciated, and under-valued.

• Have problems meeting people and often can become debilitated socially by chronic shyness.

• Become so inward that they seek to escape into their fantasy life rather than deal with the reality of their lives.

How can insecurity be overcome?

In order to overcome insecurity, people need to:

• Be willing to be put in vulnerable positions in life where they might get hurt.

• Take risks to change their current behavior.

• Trust others enough to expose themselves to them, risking vulnerability and the possibility of being hurt.

• Have a healthy and humorous belief in themselves in order to overlook their exaggerated need for acceptance and approval.

• Take a rational approach to each problem they face so that they are no longer inhibited by debilitating fears or beliefs.

• Practice assertive behavior in their lives, earning respect and the acknowledgment of their rights.

• Arouse the courage to take small steps in learning to experience success and overcoming their lack of belief in self. Once the success is experienced, they can build on it to gain the courage to act out of a strong conviction in their self-goodness and worth.

• Break the barrier or outer shell of the self-doubt they have hidden behind and reach out to others. Breaking out of their ``shells'' requires letting go of past hurts (real or imagined) and moving on with life.

• Open themselves to the possibility of success and accomplishment. Visualize or make a prophecy of winning at life so their energies are focused in a growth direction.

• Reward themselves for who they are and capitalize on their strengths, attributes, skills, and competencies.

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Why Beer is Better Than Women

1. You can enjoy beer all month long.

2. Beer stains wash out.

3. You don't have to wine and dine a beer.

4. Your beer will always wait patiently in the car while you play football.

5. When your beer goes flat, you toss it out.

6. Beer is never late.

7. Hangovers go away.

8. A beer doesn't get jealous when you grab another beer.

9. Beer labels come off without a fight.

10. When you go to a bar, you know you can always pick up a beer.

11. Beer never has a headache.

12. After you've had a beer the bottle is still worth a dime.

13. A beer won't get upset if you come home and have another beer on your breath.

14. If you pour a beer right, you'll always get good head.

15. You can have more than one beer a night and not feel guilty.

16. A beer always goes down easy.

17. You can share a beer with your friends.

18. You always know when you're the first one to pop a beer.

19. Beer is always wet.

20. Beer doesn't demand equality.

21. You can have a beer in public.

22. A beer doesn't care when you come.

23. A frigid beer is a good beer.

24. You don't have to wash a beer before it tastes good.

25. If you change beers you don't have to pay alimony.

Baby Adanne


Yan c Baby Adanne namin..c Adanne Anthony Baroy....anak ng best friend ko..c ate bing isang ulirang INA..June 13, 2008 at exactlly 1:00 am sa DMC Hospital isinilang ni ate c Adanne...Adanne meaning Fire at Anthony kc St Anthony of Padua xa pinanganak...Hay naku pinahirapan tlg ni Adanne Nanay nya..pero kahit naghirap man nga husto c ate..binigay naman sa kanya ang pinka gwapong anak ...hehehe ang cute cute pa tlg..kaso grabe maka iyak bulabog jud ang Sapphire St. sa iya..sa lagob iya tingog..heheheh...kaya kami ni ate pulihanay og pasayaw2 sa iya para muhilom..ay!!perti jud kaisog sa bata namo oi..hehehe:) pero khit ganun man..mahal na mahal namin at xempre masaya kaya may bata sa house...

Every morning xa ang ALARM CLOCK ko..kc exactly 5:30 am..nag ccmula na syang magpagicng nga mga tao sa hauz..hehehe...kc panahon na para palitan xa ng damit..di namin xa now pinapadiaper kc namumula ang pwet nya..kawawa mxado...kaya evertym na bas na xa..ayun ang boses nya sobrang ingay...kaya kami taranta napalitan para manhimik xa...hay!!!gatulo jud amo singot sa iya..labi na iya mama..hahay!!!..perti!!...Iba c Adanne sa mga baby na nkita at naalagaan ko noon...kc napansin ko sa kanya, parang di xa dumaan ung tipong bata na bagong panganak na iiyak lng pag nabasa o gutom. SIYA hay naku gutom man o hindi parang may away sa bahay kala mo tlg cno kaaway ng mama nya un pala isang batang mag iisang buwan pa lng this coming SUNDAY...GOD BLESS ADANNE...wow!! ang bilis isang buwan na pala nakalipas...di ko kc maxadng napansin at di ko nga alm kung may nagbago sa kanya kc...everytime na uuwi ako ganun pa rin man..kc parati ko raw xa nakikita sabi nga ni mama..ganun nga daw tlg..pag parati mo nakikita o nakaksama di mo mpapansin agad kung ano nagbago sa isang tao kung tumaba ba og pumayat..kc cmula ng pinanganak c Adanne purya buyag lng...grabe ka lagsik..kusog na gani kaau xa manipa..nanunulak na nga eh pag pinapadede xa ng NANAY nya...kung baga ang lakas2 nya...kahit kulang xa sa bitamina kc nung nagbubuntis c ate di naman xa umiinom na para sa buntis..pero pasalamat nlng pud me oi na ana s Adanne ka lusog...sana magpatuloy til lumaki xa....
Sa pag labas ni Adanne sa mundo narealize ko ganu kasakit manganak at kung bakit nagtampo ang nanay ko nung nagmeet at nang tumira na ako sa bahay ng real Father ko...kc sa pinagdaanan ni ate at ni Adanne now nikikita ko kung ano ako noon at c mama..kaso mas ok pa sitwasyon ko kaysa kay Adanne kc may lolo at lola akong sobrang mapag aruga...c Adanne kami2 lng nila mama at ate ang nag aalaga..pero kahit papanu tinutumbasan namin un ng pagmamahal...kasi Ako at c Adanne may pagkakatulad sa kapalaran...anak kami sa pagkadalaga ng aming mga MAHAL na INA..kay nga kung ano ung kaya kung ibigay sa kanya binibuhos ko kc naiintindihan ko ang sitwasyon nya..

My Mom

That"s my mom...Gemma Trumata....gemma or emmang...sa papel sister kami sa totoo at kahit sino tanungin mo na kakilala nmin SIYA ang PINAKAmamahal kong NANAY..heheh..libog nuh!!??..pero ana jud na xa..kaya sabta nlng hahahha:)).pero alam nyo bang mas maganda pa manmit nanay ko sa akin..at mas dalaga pa tingnan sa akin..SEXY MAMA nga biro ko palgi sa kanya kc...mas maganda manga2tawan ng nanay ko kaysa sa akin..hehehhe....bisag permi me ani nagagiyera ing ana lng jud mi ni mama, pero everytime we need each other open kami sa lahat..hehehe:)..noon nga hay! grabe jud amo naagian..kc lumaki ako sa mga mahal kong grandparents na matagal ng namayapa...kaya cguro di kami nagkakaintindihan ni mama kadalasan.alam nyo bang ngaun lng kami nagtagal na magkasama cmula ng nagkawork me til now..noon kc isang buwan lng pinkamatagal nmin kc...sobrang tapang nag nanay ko..di ko minsan maintindhan..laging mainit ang ulo lalo na pag WALANG PERA..hehahahahh...kaya magkaiba kami.,..kc ako pag ala o merong pera maingay pa rin ako heheheh:)..ayaw ko kc ung taong cge yawyaw gud na makainit og ulo...lahi man ang tabi sa yaw2 hehehhe...kay ako tabian man..hahha...abi nimo sa sobra kaisog sa ako mama sa una ala jud ko ana gaduol niya kay mahadlok ko..gikan ko elementary til college ko makentento lng ko na isa - duha kaoras me mag uban sa ako mama,kc gabisibisita ra man xa...kc noon nasa cotabato ako nag aaral tapos siya cmula ng mamatay step Father ko d2 na xa nanirahan sa DAVAO..kaya cguro malayo loob ko sa kanya noon.
Ngaun, mas Ok na kami ng nanay ko...nagtatawanan at nag aasaran na..Mas masaya at mas maganda na ang samahan,kc dapat di na ungkatin ang naklaipas at lalo na NANAy ko xa kahit ano pa mangyari."MAHAL namin SIYA...heheheh"...Ngayon binabawi niya ang lahay ng pagkukulang nya bilang nanay sa amin lahat ginagawa nya khit na minsan nahihirapan na siya..Ang buhay ng nanay ko cguro masasabi kong napaka challenging ...matatawag kong napakatapang nya para harapin ang lahat ng un....18 years old pa lng xa nang ipinanganak ako di pinalad sa kapartner kaya mga magulang niya ang naging katuwang nya sa pagpapalaki sa akin at hinanap nya ulit ang kapalaran nya nag aral ulit at naghanap ng trabaho.Pinalad na magkaasawa at nagkaroon cla ng dalawang anak ngunit pagkalipas ng ilang taon pinatay ang step Father ko kaya kosa xang umalis at hinanap ang sarili sa kabila ng paghihirap sinikap nyang mabuhay ng mag isa khit anong trabaho basta marangal pinasok nya hanggang sa nakapundar...kaso nag mga icpang mag abroad sa kahirapan at gustong maipon kaming mga anak nya d2 sa DAVAO nakipag sapalaran xa sa labas ng bansa ngunit sa guhit ng tadhana di xa pinalad umuwing luhaan at nauwi sa wala ang mga napundar nya noon...hahay!!!!(kalooy man sa inahan ko!!!)...ngaun binigyan ng isang pagkakataong bumangon nakapasok xa bilang Lady Guard ng Ateneo De Davao University sa tulong ng scholarship nya sa OWWA...Ngayon pinagtutulungan naming umahon at sana makapundar ulit...Ngunit di pa dun na tapos kc...noong june 2 lng kasali din kami sa nasunugan..hahay..!!! kaya lipat bahay na naman kami...CGURO nga kakambal ng nanay ko ang kamalasan heheeheh...HIndi ah..joke lng..hehehe...lahat naman ng tao nagkakaroon ng problema (pero sa dami ba naman ng kamalasan na un..hhehhehe)HAy...ana jud ng life oi....Kinabuhi jud sa pobre...heheheh...pero ok lng atleast safe kami at my mga trabaho na, matutupad din namin ng nanay ko ang lahat ng gusto naming marating kahit simple lng basta masaya kami at magkasama kami....hehehehe...GOD WILL MAKE A WAY...:)

Grabe ka tapang ng NANAY ko mapaaway man o problema nya hnarap nya na at kaya nyang xa lng.....bilib lng ako sa kanya kc..sa kadami2 nyang napagdaanan kinaya nya lahat at nanindigan xa...YAN ang mama ko...c GEMMA jud xa...hehhehe:D...One proud MAMA...hehehe:D

Mothers Love Poems
Words Cannot Express How Much I Love You

You are the best mother in the world; I say it all the time

You’ll do anything to keep a smile on my face

If something would ever happen to you,

I don’t know what I’d do

Cause I know no one could ever take your place

We have our good times and we have our bad

I’m glad when you tell me your opinion

Sometimes I get mad, but I know it’s for the best

Would I trade it for the world, no, are you kiddin’?

I love you to death and I would do anything for you

I’m sorry when I make you upset

I want you to know that I love you more than anything

And in my heart is where you will always be kept

If it weren’t for you, it wouldn’t be me

You helped me in my hardest situations

You made me feel better when I thought my life was over

You said it would be better things in my life I’d be facin’

Words can’t express how much I love you

I thank the lord for you everyday